My wife is several weeks past her C-Section and got a clean bill of health from the doctor. However, between exhaustion and frustration (dealing with 2 older kids, the baby and an increasing lack of space), our sex life is still non-existent, and I'm not sure when it might resume.
My sexual frustration is growing exponentially, especially when I see her pre-pregnancy figure returning and her milk-filled breasts swelling.
I want to hold her, kiss her, caress her.....I want to suck and lick on her nipples and breasts (and know I'd get a taste of milk)....and I want to devour her pussy and feel her get wetter and wetter as I finger and lick her cunt....
Alas, I doubt that's going to happen anytime soon.
Any suggestions? I'm getting tired of jacking off....
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
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Ronald all i can suggest is giving your wife some time off from the new born. Even a couple of hours uninterrupted would improve her disposition and maybe some time for you.
Hey Gaz....I appreciate, but my wife's ill-tempered mood is more than just exhaustion....it's frustrating, and not easily explained in the blogosphere....
that was my suggestion as well. perhaps a date night? pamper her, butter her up and put her in the mood, but if it's more than exhaustion i'm at a loss. however, i do hope you get laid soon. :)
You've mentioned before that you and your wife have quite different drives and desires when it comes to sex. You've also mentioned sex workers and AFF before. People that I know in your situation that are not opposed to looking outside their marriage (which I assume you aren't, as you've talked about it before) tend to use AFF, Ashley Madison, CL, or escort services. Beyond that, I don't know there's much else to do, beyond what the others are suggested regarding pampering your wife, taking her out, and trying to give her a break from the kids.
Just piggy-backing off of what Brit said:
Plenty of people I know have found great FWB arrangements through CL--free, easy, straightforward. I haven't tried it personally, but a couple very close friends have with great success.
You should read this: http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendId=11210480&blogId=491850473
Thanks Sequoia, but this is our 3rd child so I've been here before......it's just frustrating, and no amount of literature is going to help....
One word for you: Fleshlight.
After my wife gave birth, it's the only thing that stopped me losing my mind!
Found your blog randomly and love it. I'll be following =)
Oh and seriously screw what these other readers are saying, you wanna get fucked? (and you rightfully deserve to) Show her some romanticness.
Give her a bath after the kids are down for the night, make her a small meal, send her unexpected flowers. It's a definite panty dropper for the ladies, even for new mommies.
Trust me =)
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