I was playing on FetLife before and thought that my profile might be a springboard to a Blog Topic. For those who don't know, Fetlife is a free Social Network for the BDSM & fetish community. In setting up your profile, Fetlife invites you to choose from an extensive list of fetishes that might interest you.
On mine, I've indicated that I'm into.....anal sex, ass play, biting, blindfolds, bondage, breast/nipple torture, candle wax, cock and ball torture, corsets, dildos, discipline, doctor/nurse play, erotic photography, exhibitionism, hair pulling, handcuffs, high heels, lingerie, masturbation, mutual masturbation, nipples, oral sex, pantyhose/stockings, piercings, power exchange, rimming, role play, scent, sex in public, spanking, squirting, strap-ons, talking dirty, toys, vibrators, and voyeurism, and curious about fisting, gangbangs, leather, making home movies, watersports and whips.
I don't have lots of experience with all the things I'm into, but have tried them at one time or another and would be willing to try them again. Of the items on that list, I have often enjoyed seeing a woman in a corset (in photos and in person) and think it amongst the sexiest types of lingerie ever invented (and likewise enjoy seeing a woman in high heels, lingerie, and pantyhose/stockings). I love handcuffs (on either the giving or receiving end), and definitely enjoy anything to do with nipple play, oral sex (readers know I love cunnilingus and don't get head nearly enough), role play, public places (more fantasy than reality), squirters (never enough) and dirty talk and toys.
As for the stuff I'm curious about, I'd definitely be willing to explore those activities if the right situation presented itself, especially gangbangs (I continue to have pangs of jealously and envy whenever I read about Alexa's recent gangbang experience at www.realprincessdiaries.com) and watersports.
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
4 Things About Me
I have been very lacking in inspiration the past couple of days. After googling some memes I found this one. Enjoy.
4 jobs I have had:
1. Camp Counselor
2. Intern
3. Law Firm Associate
4. Law Firm Partner
4 movies I can watch over and over
1. Star Wars (original trilogy)
2. American Pie
3. Animal House
4. Bull Durham
4 places I have lived
1. Long Island, NY
2. Chicago, IL
3. NYC/NJ
4. Boca Raton, FL
4 TV shows I love
1. Stargate: Universe
2. V
3. The Big Bang Theory
4. How I Met Your Mother
4 places I have been on vacation
1. Hawaii
2. Caribbean
3. Disney World
4. Hilton Head, South Carolina
4 of my foods
1. Chinese Food
2. Japanese Food
3. Kosher Deli
4. BBQ
4 Websites I Visit Daily
1. ESPN
2. The Real Princess Diaries
3. NY Post
4. NY Law Journal
4 Places I Dream of Going
1. Vegas
2. Australia
3. Israel (been 2x and would like to go again)
4. Hedonism (not going to happen)
You are supposed to tag four bloggers with this meme, but I don't want to pick just four or put anyone on the spot. However, feel free to copy me. I copied this from someone else.
4 jobs I have had:
1. Camp Counselor
2. Intern
3. Law Firm Associate
4. Law Firm Partner
4 movies I can watch over and over
1. Star Wars (original trilogy)
2. American Pie
3. Animal House
4. Bull Durham
4 places I have lived
1. Long Island, NY
2. Chicago, IL
3. NYC/NJ
4. Boca Raton, FL
4 TV shows I love
1. Stargate: Universe
2. V
3. The Big Bang Theory
4. How I Met Your Mother
4 places I have been on vacation
1. Hawaii
2. Caribbean
3. Disney World
4. Hilton Head, South Carolina
4 of my foods
1. Chinese Food
2. Japanese Food
3. Kosher Deli
4. BBQ
4 Websites I Visit Daily
1. ESPN
2. The Real Princess Diaries
3. NY Post
4. NY Law Journal
4 Places I Dream of Going
1. Vegas
2. Australia
3. Israel (been 2x and would like to go again)
4. Hedonism (not going to happen)
You are supposed to tag four bloggers with this meme, but I don't want to pick just four or put anyone on the spot. However, feel free to copy me. I copied this from someone else.
Quick Questions for My Female Readers
1) What color and style panties are you wearing today?
2) When did you last have sex?
3) Where did he cum?
4) When was the last time you masturbated?
5) When was the last time you shaved/waxed your pussy?
6) When was the last time someone has eaten you out?
7) What do you think you taste like?
2) When did you last have sex?
3) Where did he cum?
4) When was the last time you masturbated?
5) When was the last time you shaved/waxed your pussy?
6) When was the last time someone has eaten you out?
7) What do you think you taste like?
Monday, November 9, 2009
Sex At Home and Away From Home (and commentary on KinkyDad's related blogpost)
I should be working but I’m trying this blog comment/blog post instead. I’m posting it here on KinkyDad’s blog as a comment (http://kinkydad2001.blogspot.com/2009/11/so-i-had-sex-and-pizza-this-weekend.html) and also as a post on my own personal blog.
KinkyDad and I have never met in person but have become good “friends”. He is one of only two men (my best-real life-friend being the other) who know that I’ve seen prostitutes and he is the only man who has both my real and alternative contact information in his database. I trust him implicitly, probably because we have a great deal in common.
We’re both nice, jewish guys, natives of the Northeast (though I’ve escaped to the Fifth Borough in South Florida), who love their wives and their kids and wish for more exciting, inspirating, active sex lives with their wives, and struggle with infidelity and prostitutes in order to obtain that passion, emotion, connection and excitement that is too often missing at home.
Unlike KinkyDad’s wife, my wife likes sex, and initiates it on occasion (KinkyDad even acknowledged some of my prior posts about hot sex at home). But such episodes have been few and far between, and even rare the past few weeks. I understand and appreciate that she has been tired (and that for a 2 ½ week period either she or the kids or she and the kids were sick). But this weekend, she was perfectly healthy, the kids were asleep early, and she withheld sex as punishment because she’s upset with me about the house, my parents and assorted other issues (what fun!).
KinkyDad and I could be living the same life—we love our wife and kids—but we hate our sex lives at home, and almost need the help of prostitutes to keep our sanity. They are almost psychiatrists for our libidos.
I wish I had an answer. All I have is this post.
KinkyDad and I have never met in person but have become good “friends”. He is one of only two men (my best-real life-friend being the other) who know that I’ve seen prostitutes and he is the only man who has both my real and alternative contact information in his database. I trust him implicitly, probably because we have a great deal in common.
We’re both nice, jewish guys, natives of the Northeast (though I’ve escaped to the Fifth Borough in South Florida), who love their wives and their kids and wish for more exciting, inspirating, active sex lives with their wives, and struggle with infidelity and prostitutes in order to obtain that passion, emotion, connection and excitement that is too often missing at home.
Unlike KinkyDad’s wife, my wife likes sex, and initiates it on occasion (KinkyDad even acknowledged some of my prior posts about hot sex at home). But such episodes have been few and far between, and even rare the past few weeks. I understand and appreciate that she has been tired (and that for a 2 ½ week period either she or the kids or she and the kids were sick). But this weekend, she was perfectly healthy, the kids were asleep early, and she withheld sex as punishment because she’s upset with me about the house, my parents and assorted other issues (what fun!).
KinkyDad and I could be living the same life—we love our wife and kids—but we hate our sex lives at home, and almost need the help of prostitutes to keep our sanity. They are almost psychiatrists for our libidos.
I wish I had an answer. All I have is this post.
Labels:
escorts,
KinkyDad,
married sex,
sex with escorts,
sex with my wife
Writer's Block
I'm in the midst of posting a blog comment (in response to a blog post by my friend and comrade KinkyDad (http://kinkydad2001.blogspot.com/2009/11/so-i-had-sex-and-pizza-this-weekend.html) and a blog post on related topics but just wanted to post a simple update.
I'm swamped at work and home, and other than drawing inspiration from KinkyDad, am suffering from severe writer's block, in part because I fear writing too much personal stuff and thereby risking my identity.
That being said, I welcome e-mails, IMs, tweets and comments with ideas, suggestions, encouragement or just greetings.
I'm swamped at work and home, and other than drawing inspiration from KinkyDad, am suffering from severe writer's block, in part because I fear writing too much personal stuff and thereby risking my identity.
That being said, I welcome e-mails, IMs, tweets and comments with ideas, suggestions, encouragement or just greetings.
Monday, November 2, 2009
Natural Bush--Pubic Hair and More
I tweeted about this earlier, and must share here as well.
They say that the pictures in question belong to Eva Green, who was in the most recent James Bond movie.
I have no idea, but either way, the woman pictured has a beautiful pussy with pubic hair.
I would love to devour hers.
http://www.celebritypubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/eva_green_pubes.jpg
They say that the pictures in question belong to Eva Green, who was in the most recent James Bond movie.
I have no idea, but either way, the woman pictured has a beautiful pussy with pubic hair.
I would love to devour hers.
http://www.celebritypubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/eva_green_pubes.jpg
Labels:
cunnilingus,
hair vs. bare,
pubic hair,
pubic hair grooming
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Happy Halloween
My Halloween observances have evolved over the years.
MY CHILDHOOD: I was a kid, dressing up and going out for candy with friends (accompanied by my parents). Times were different--costumes were tame, there were no well-publicized safety issues for kids (tainted candy, pedophiles and more), and everything seemed innocent. (I had outgrown trick-or-treating when most of those previously noted issues arose in my tweens, teens and twenties).
COLLEGE/POST-COLLEGE BACHELOR-HOOD: I was in college/post-college mode, using Halloween as an opportunity to dress up for fraternity parties, college events, and beer-infused events. I did not hook up nearly as often as I could have, should have or wanted to.
DATING AND MARRIED/WITHOUT KIDS: When I was dating/married without kids, Halloween became another day of the year, with very little emphasis from me or my then-girlfriend/now wife.
TRICK-OR-TREATING AS A PARENT: I love the excitement my kids have about Halloween, and am enjoying it more as they get older and enjoy it more themselves.
HALLOWEEN 2009: I am definitely getting older. I felt dirty looking at the teenagers in their costumes, and naughty looking at some of the housewives in theirs. Damn, Halloween really gives everyone the excuse to be risque. I wish I could have been naughtier.....
MY CHILDHOOD: I was a kid, dressing up and going out for candy with friends (accompanied by my parents). Times were different--costumes were tame, there were no well-publicized safety issues for kids (tainted candy, pedophiles and more), and everything seemed innocent. (I had outgrown trick-or-treating when most of those previously noted issues arose in my tweens, teens and twenties).
COLLEGE/POST-COLLEGE BACHELOR-HOOD: I was in college/post-college mode, using Halloween as an opportunity to dress up for fraternity parties, college events, and beer-infused events. I did not hook up nearly as often as I could have, should have or wanted to.
DATING AND MARRIED/WITHOUT KIDS: When I was dating/married without kids, Halloween became another day of the year, with very little emphasis from me or my then-girlfriend/now wife.
TRICK-OR-TREATING AS A PARENT: I love the excitement my kids have about Halloween, and am enjoying it more as they get older and enjoy it more themselves.
HALLOWEEN 2009: I am definitely getting older. I felt dirty looking at the teenagers in their costumes, and naughty looking at some of the housewives in theirs. Damn, Halloween really gives everyone the excuse to be risque. I wish I could have been naughtier.....
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